I want to turn off my contact key verification

I have never heard of a "contacts key verification ".

Maybe you mean this? -->

Help a friend or family member as their account recovery contact - Apple Support

1. Go to Settings

2. Select Password & Security

3. Select Account Recovery or Recovery Assistance

4. Select a person

5. Select 'Remove Contact'

Hey Lyndi,

I'm having the same problem, on my Mac. Hopefully we can resolve this problem soon.

Go to setting On my ay your laptop.

Look for APPLE Using Contact Key and press reset key.

exit and your good to go..