apple can recover permanently deleted photo/video

Read this support article for full information --> Delete photos on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support

- "If you want to permanently delete your photos or videos, you can remove them from the Recently Deleted album. When you delete a photo from this album, you can't get it back."

No. Permanently deleted really does mean permanently. Forever, with no chance of recovery.

See if you had them stored somewhere else. On a computer. Did you send any to friends?

Yes gone forever, never to be seen again by any eyes