Can’t find some options in find my

Can you verify the information in your Bluetooth settings:

1. Go to Settings > Bluetooth.
2. Tap the Info button next to your device in the list. 
3. Scroll down to Find My network. 
4. Make sure that Find My network is turned on

Grab the handle here and pull the screen up and post a screenshot of what you see there. Redact any personal location info please.

Locate AirPods in Find My - Apple Support