I can leave open Outlook, chrome, safari, adobe, word...
and
It does not happen every day, but frequently enough to bother me.
Those two statements combined suggest a cause. Computer sleep allows functions to continue working at low levels in the same way human sleep uses energy to keep your heart beating, you lungs working, and brain activity going, albeit at a reduced level.
I suspect Chrome. It is a known resource hog on both Windows and Mac notebook computers. It may still be connecting to sites even when the computer is sleeping. And it is not just Chrome. I am finding more and more web sites that continue to be active in the background regardless of the browser. I can recreate that on demand with my older Pro by leaving the Amazon home page open in the background in Safari.
If you have any anti-virus, torrent, or so-called "cleaning" software installed, they can be disrespectful of your desire to have the computer to sleep without draining your battery. They should go. Same with client-side VPNs—the ones over-hyped in TV adverts. Not needed by 99% of people who fall for the hype.
....so I can resume the next day.
To avoid a severe change to your routine, you can try turning off wifi at night as a test. Most battery eaters are "phoning home" regularly and cannot do that without an internet connection. If the battery still has a useable charge in the morning, that is a data point.
This Apple article shows how to view your battery use history overnight:
View Battery Usage History on a Mac laptop - Apple Support
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The free version will do nicely for this purpose, although the app is worthy of our financial support.
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How to use the Add Text Feature When Post… - Apple Community