Facetime comes on automatically when an unknown caller phones
Using an iPhone 14 14 Pro v. 17.4.1. For the past week, I have noticed that FaceTime, on my iMac 14 with Sonoma 14.4.1 has been coming on even though to turn it on I have to go to launchpad, find it and turn it on. I did not do that nor do I ever use FaceTime on my mac or my phone. I finally figured out that the FaceTime app comes on when I receive a call from an unknown caller (all unknown callers are blocked on my phone so I don't hear a ring, just get a notification that a call was made). This is really beginning to scare me as I really don't like the feeling that someone may be watching me without my noticing. Is there a setting I can change so this doesn't occur? I can't seem to find anything that looks like it would work.
Thanks for any help.
iPhone 14 Pro