Automatically add calendar events from email

Hello - I have ADHD and as a result of the executive functioning deficits caused by that condition, it’s really challenging for me to keep track of my schedule.

I need to allow family members to add events to my calendar so that I can keep track of commitments. But there doesn’t seem to be any way to choose to have calendar events sent to my email added to my Apple calendar automatically.

This is just an email click, but the lack of this feature is causing significant problems in my life and conflict due to missed commitments. If you can’t / won’t offer this, I’ll have to move all my calendar and email to another service. Apple is meant to take universal design seriously, but you have removed this simple feature that is essential for millions of neurodivergent people like me.