Scubagirlmom wrote:
Thank you, but these were taken by my exe's and were saved back then on the shared apple ID. I do not have any access to his Apple ID or cloud for sure.
In general, here is:
How to “unshare” an Apple ID - Apple Community
That's the general sequence for a split into per-person Apple IDs.
If the devices are still tied to the shared Apple ID (and if you don't have the password), then prising the devices and data away from that Apple ID is problematic at best. You'll need the original purchase receipts and a discussion with Apple, if the exe is unwilling to release the devices (and if any potential legal recourses are not an option for you). If you do have the password, follow the steps above.
You will need to get your devices clear of the Apple ID for Activation Lock, and for various other privacy- and security-related reasons.
If your iPhone and any other devices are not tied to the shared Apple ID and the photos are solely tied to the now-unavailable computer, then see if enabling iCloud Photos (details linked in reply above) can get you clear of that computer. You'll need to have rented sufficient iCloud+ storage to upload the photos into iCloud. Once uploaded, you should have access from all devices, though do recognize that deleting in one place will delete that photo everywhere, when iCloud Photos is enabled.
For others following along, shared Apple IDs can end badly, as Scubagirlmom is well aware: Apple recommends against sharing.