Knowing what I was likely to be letting myself in for, I decided not to update my phone but update ipad for a test.
I run my own mail server with a self signed SSL certificate.
Updated to iPadOS18.3
Deleted Mail account.
Set up Mail account with working settings from iPhone on iOS 17.7.2
I was asked to review details and trust for my certificates which I did.
Opened Mail app, all emails visible and readable.
Replied successfully.
As soon as Mail app checked for new mail I got:
The mail server X is not responding. Verify that you have entered the correct account info in Mail settings
Unable to create a secure connection to the server (“bad certificate format@ -9,808)
Set up outlook connection to
my account without issue!