I discovered a solution to this: Spark Mail
After upgrading to iOS 18 and iPadOS 18 on my respective devices, and wasting hours trying to make changes to my Mail app configurations and debugging via my mail server as per the guidance from various contributors to this thread, I began a search in earnest for a replacement to Apple Mail.
Spark Mail is $59/year (USD) for an individual user like me and after trying it out, I’m kind of grateful that I encountered this issue with the Apple Mail app, because without this issue I never would have discovered Spark, an email app for my iOS, iPadOS and MacOS devices that provides a significant productivity boost (even though I’m already subscribing to SaneBox) and it solves the blocking issue described in this discussion thread.
hth some of you who are held hostage by this situation. I’m not affiliated with the makers of Spark in any way. I just wanted to share the solution I landed on.