​​ ​

The Apple Support Community will permanently close on November 20, 2026. Starting today, the site will no longer accept new posts and is available in a read-only state.


You can continue to find trusted guidance and support on the official Apple Support site. 


We want to thank the community members who have contributed their time and expertise to help others with their Apple products.


cannot turn off notifcation silence when I text my wife iphone

my wife receives any messages from my iPhone having notification silence on it



iPhone 13, iOS 18

Posted on Oct 6, 2024 4:28 AM

Question marked as Top-ranking reply

Posted on Oct 6, 2024 2:51 PM

I understand that when your wife has notifications silenced, your messages still notify her with an audible tone. This will happen if your wife has set your contact as an Emergency Bypass contact on her iPhone.

You can double check this on her iPhone, by opening your contact card and then tapping on Ringtone. The Emergency Bypass switch is probably set to ON.


Axel F.

1 reply
Question marked as Top-ranking reply

Oct 6, 2024 2:51 PM in response to Jaybee47

I understand that when your wife has notifications silenced, your messages still notify her with an audible tone. This will happen if your wife has set your contact as an Emergency Bypass contact on her iPhone.

You can double check this on her iPhone, by opening your contact card and then tapping on Ringtone. The Emergency Bypass switch is probably set to ON.


Axel F.

This thread has been closed by the system or the community team. You may vote for any posts you find helpful, or search the Community for additional answers.

cannot turn off notifcation silence when I text my wife iphone

Welcome to Apple Support Community
A forum where Apple customers help each other with their products. Get started with your Apple Account.