Hello, Fnœ.
I contacted Apple support and had a nice chat… By email came the advice: please contact Apple support.
Did you contact the Official Apple Support, the Apple Support Community, or the Apple feedback service? Believe it or not, all three are different.
The official Apple Support is meant for help if you don’t know how to do something, need to start a repair, or are having issues that need to be looked over. This is probably what the person you were talking with was referring to. This place is where official Apple employees help you.
The Apple Support community is what we are currently using, a forum for fellow Apple users to give each other tips, helpful information, be a help while the users are waiting for official support, and generally to support each other by sharing solutions to problems that others may be experiencing for the first time. Apple does not read these forums.
The Apple feedback service is a place to give Apple feedback of actual software bugs and glitches you’ve encountered or something that you want to see in a future product, software update, or service. I don’t think that they usually reply, but who knows: they might. Apple reads these and takes them into account. Don’t believe me? Check out this thread from last year. Let’s just say that with 731 upvotes, it blew up way more than this one. With the links that people have to the Apple Feedback page, people were able to submit their feedback. And according to Apple this year, the new Send Later feature was one of their most requested features of this year. This proves that feedback works. Apple is ready and willing to listen, especially when a bunch of people submit feedback about one thing.
We can yell and scream all we want on these forums, but Apple won’t listen. Not because they choose to ignore, but because they simply have other means meant for getting feedback. So next time when you claim that their system is “closed loops by design,” think again.
Get support directly from Apple: Official Apple Support
Get support from fellow users: Apple Support Community
Submit feedback directly to Apple: Product Feedback - Apple