Hi, and welcome to the Apple (user-to-user) Community!
Re: "I enabled voice control and now I can’t use my phone at all".
Am no expert in this area, yet your request deserves a prompt response.Seems you would need to either use your voice for commands that operate your phone, or you may be able to ask "Hey Siri ,Turn off Voice Control."
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Re: "I enabled voice control, it was not working",
Seems Voice Control requires a small download after you first enable it, so It may have been downloading that.
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Re: "I cannot use my phone at all and am a disabled person, so, help?"
If Voice Control is still enabled, and If you haven't seen it already:
Apple Support have a video online to help learn to use Voice Control:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eg22JaZWAgs
If you need more help, or support, with this accessibility feature, you might want to contact the experts on Apple's Accessibility Team: See: How to contact Apple for accessibility support - Apple Support
or
Apple's Accessibility Support Website (info. / support / contact options)
(NB: You can "Get Support" from the link at the bottom of their website:)
Accessibility Support - Official Apple Support
All the best :-)