How do I stop my iPhone activities from appearing on other devices?

My wife can see every single message I send and receive from her phone I don’t know how and she can also see my calls everything I think she can see what I’m doing in my phone , how she can do that and how to stop that



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iPhone 16 Pro Max, iOS 18

Posted on Dec 10, 2024 6:45 PM

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Posted on Dec 10, 2024 7:26 PM

I’m not entirely certain what was meant by “share iCloud+”, which could mean sharing an Apple Account, or having separate accounts with Family Sharing configured.


Sharing an Apple account with anyone (including your daughter) is not what you want to do, and will share ~everything.


Otherwise, your carrier is somehow sharing your SMS or RCS chats, and call data.


Or you’re being gaslit.


Also, more generally, run Safety Check, and set up two-factor authentication, and related steps.

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Dec 10, 2024 7:26 PM in response to Ayounes1981

I’m not entirely certain what was meant by “share iCloud+”, which could mean sharing an Apple Account, or having separate accounts with Family Sharing configured.


Sharing an Apple account with anyone (including your daughter) is not what you want to do, and will share ~everything.


Otherwise, your carrier is somehow sharing your SMS or RCS chats, and call data.


Or you’re being gaslit.


Also, more generally, run Safety Check, and set up two-factor authentication, and related steps.

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