Check both the Language/Region on your iPad at Settings > General > Language & Region and the Keyboard that you are using at Settings > General > Keyboard. Also check if it is under the More button when viewing the keyboard in Messages by swiping to the left on the Message apps above the keyboard. You may need to change the order of the Message apps to make it available without swiping.
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