But there are people here saying wifi calling with an iPhone X on iOS 16.7.11 is impossible
You misunderstood.....Wi-Fi Calling on an iPhone X running iOS 16 is certainly possible.....IF......the carrier supports this. My son's iPhone X....running iOS 16.....works just fine with Wi-Fi calling with his U.S. carrier.
The issue is that my provider has decided, for no obvious reason, to require iOS 17.
We could provide the reasons, but it would still not solve your issue or make your frustrations go away. There are two solutions to your issue:
1) Buy a new phone that support iOS 18 and iOS 26, so you will be covered for new updates for the next 7 years or so.
2) Ask around at other carriers that may still be supporting iOS 16 with Wi-Fi Calling on their service. However, keep in mind that the carrier that you choose may change their requirements in the next year or two. In fact, I would expect it.
Technology moves quickly, and that will not change. Now, it is time for you to make a decision.