How do I assist someone with locked Apple Account and no recovery options?

I am wanting to assist an elderly friend in correcting details on their Apple Account with the assistance of Apple Support.The individual had reached out to another friend and was to receive Apple support via mobile or text, but on the day of the appointment, all she received was a text to reset her account and unfortunately that method cannot work for a variety of reasons. Where else can I start to help them get this corrected. The individual was given support through a local Volunteer organisation and unfortunately was not given all the details to how it was correct, so we need to start back at square one. No two verification method on Apple account available. No PW on email account used and email has no two verification method either. I believe creating an entirely new Apple account for the individual would be best, but so far, unable to delete previous email account. It has been used very little as the individual has not wanted to attempt correction so not to trouble anyone. I'd really like to help them, so am reaching out to the community for ideas where to begin.


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Posted on Sep 13, 2025 5:35 PM

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Posted on Sep 13, 2025 9:23 PM

CBD6 wrote:

Thank you for your reply. It's not clear whether you are the "moderator" here (so whomever, thank you for the title change as it is very helpful), or someone who wishes to answer the question, but your summary is accurate. The individual does not have access to email used to establish account as they do not have the password and it was established under a previous mobile device that was 3G, and here in AUS, there was a upgrade.


This is a user-to-user forum. The folks that work for Apple may or may not read postings around here, and seldom reply. The moderators here do work for Apple.


The easiest would be to incorporate the use of the most frequently used email account where we have password ability, but that would require deleting the account which doesn't appear possible without two step authorisation.


And you need to regain access to the Apple Account, probably using Account Recovery.


Recovery requires the devices associated with the account not be used for the duration of the recovery. Or if you cannot recover access to the Apple Account holding Activation Lock, you need to provide convincing proof of ownership such as an original purchase receipt from Apple or an authorized reseller, and a discussion with Apple Support.


As for how this password recovery procedures work now, the existing procedures are continuously tested by miscreants, crooks, scammers, and riffraff. Yes, people that can’t remember their own passwords and that lack enough context for Recovery to work can be permanently locked out. And they should be locked out, too. Because the alternative here is more problems for everybody; for should the recipients of lost or stolen devices to have a pay to useful devices means stolen devices and found devices become more valuable, and thefts become more common.


If (when?) you get this sorted and regain account access, consider adding a recovery contact, and consider adding a legacy contact.



Info about Apple Account Recovery, with a red highlight added:


How to use account recovery when you can’t reset your Apple Account password - Apple Support




As for how these messes can be created and can propagate, probably the most common sequence for a rep handling a new or newly-acquired device — whether Apple, Android, whatever — when the buyer is unable to remember their password is to create a new account. Get the device set up, get the buyer happy and working, and get the buyer moved along.



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Sep 13, 2025 9:23 PM in response to CBD6

CBD6 wrote:

Thank you for your reply. It's not clear whether you are the "moderator" here (so whomever, thank you for the title change as it is very helpful), or someone who wishes to answer the question, but your summary is accurate. The individual does not have access to email used to establish account as they do not have the password and it was established under a previous mobile device that was 3G, and here in AUS, there was a upgrade.


This is a user-to-user forum. The folks that work for Apple may or may not read postings around here, and seldom reply. The moderators here do work for Apple.


The easiest would be to incorporate the use of the most frequently used email account where we have password ability, but that would require deleting the account which doesn't appear possible without two step authorisation.


And you need to regain access to the Apple Account, probably using Account Recovery.


Recovery requires the devices associated with the account not be used for the duration of the recovery. Or if you cannot recover access to the Apple Account holding Activation Lock, you need to provide convincing proof of ownership such as an original purchase receipt from Apple or an authorized reseller, and a discussion with Apple Support.


As for how this password recovery procedures work now, the existing procedures are continuously tested by miscreants, crooks, scammers, and riffraff. Yes, people that can’t remember their own passwords and that lack enough context for Recovery to work can be permanently locked out. And they should be locked out, too. Because the alternative here is more problems for everybody; for should the recipients of lost or stolen devices to have a pay to useful devices means stolen devices and found devices become more valuable, and thefts become more common.


If (when?) you get this sorted and regain account access, consider adding a recovery contact, and consider adding a legacy contact.



Info about Apple Account Recovery, with a red highlight added:


How to use account recovery when you can’t reset your Apple Account password - Apple Support




As for how these messes can be created and can propagate, probably the most common sequence for a rep handling a new or newly-acquired device — whether Apple, Android, whatever — when the buyer is unable to remember their password is to create a new account. Get the device set up, get the buyer happy and working, and get the buyer moved along.



Sep 13, 2025 6:03 PM in response to CBD6

A summary of the posting: “Elderly friend needs help correcting Apple Account details. Unable to reset account or delete previous email account.”


I’m not particularly certain I understand what is being reported, and what is being requested.


Is your friend able to get to an Apple Store, where you might be able to meet and work with them and store staff? Remote support is difficult. At best.


I’m guessing that the core issue is loss of Apple Account access possibly involving two-factor access, and efforts to use Account Recovery to regain access, but the details here are unclear.


One of the things that will stop the account recovery process is using the device.


Why there also needs to be an account deleted here is unclear too, unless this is involving Activation Lock.


I tried to keep some folks on their longstanding iPhone and iPad gear, thinking that was most helpful. It wasn’t. Their own gear just frustrated them. While there are some newer features that might help reduce some of the complexity, such as Assistive Access, and features that can help with support too such as the Messages screen sharing feature, iPhone and iPad can be fundamentally frustrating.

Sep 13, 2025 8:23 PM in response to MrHoffman

Thank you for your reply. It's not clear whether you are the "moderator" here (so whomever, thank you for the title change as it is very helpful), or someone who wishes to answer the question, but your summary is accurate. The individual does not have access to email used to establish account as they do not have the password and it was established under a previous mobile device that was 3G, and here in AUS, there was a upgrade.


The easiest would be to incorporate the use of the most frequently used email account where we have password ability, but that would require deleting the account which doesn't appear possible without two step authorisation.


Again, those supporting my friend made these changes without impressing up them that the new email and other information needed meticulous note keeping for complete access. We have no access to a local Apple Store here in our community, so via mobile or online is our only option.

I hope that helps other's in this thread to offer some helpful ideas.

Sep 13, 2025 9:19 PM in response to Kaleemhashmi861

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This doesn’t appear related to helping somebody remotely helping somebody else having issues with their Apple Account.


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