I updated my Mac Pro 2019 to Tahoe, this was not easy and I didn't think it would work but, What I did was this:
• Updated to Tahoe and upon restart, it stalled at the Apple Logo for "HOURS" but it finally booted up to the startup screen.
• I let it sit for "HOURS" to let Spotlight catalog everything, only then did it start to really come back to normal speeds without a lot of slow chugging.
• Then I erased the hard drive and started over after backing up the drive on Time Machine. Now the computer acts like a new machine.
I suspect that when I did this, the machine didn't need to index all the useless and/or incompatible obsolete files that didn't work on the system. I suggest this method vs trying to get the INTEL machine to work with Tahoe with all your old stuff. Start fresh, you'll spend less time figuring things out.