Prevent calls and texts on iPhone 14

My husband has an iPhone 14. He was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Dementia in 2023. Lately he has been making calls and texts to many people in his contact list. Some have mentioned that they receive as many as 20 messages and calls a day. I don’t want to take his phone away because it provides him with much pleasure. My question: is there a way I can set it up so that his calls and texts will not go through, thereby not inconveniencing or alienating longtime friends and associates? I am his sole caregiver, but it is not possible for me to be with him and monitor his activity 24/7. I’m not sure if he has upgraded to iOS 26. If he has not it would be the latest version of iOS 18 I believe.

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Posted on Jan 28, 2026 10:11 AM

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Jan 28, 2026 10:50 AM in response to davidfromnorfolk

In addition to razmee209's suggestion, you might want to look at Apple's simplified interface option.


Assistive Access User Guide - Apple Support


You may also be able to make use of the Screen Time controls. As your husband is not a child, any changes in the settings would need to be made directly on his phone. However, I believe you can set a Screen Time passcode that is not the same as the iPhone's passcode.


Use parental controls to manage your child's iPhone or iPad - Apple Support



I wish you all the best. Take care of yourself.


Jan 28, 2026 10:18 AM in response to davidfromnorfolk

davidfromnorfolk wrote:

My husband has an iPhone 14. He was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Dementia in 2023. Lately he has been making calls and texts to many people in his contact list. Some have mentioned that they receive as many as 20 messages and calls a day. I don’t want to take his phone away because it provides him with much pleasure. My question: is there a way I can set it up so that his calls and texts will not go through, thereby not inconveniencing or alienating longtime friends and associates? I am his sole caregiver, but it is not possible for me to be with him and monitor his activity 24/7. I’m not sure if he has upgraded to iOS 26. If he has not it would be the latest version of iOS 18 I believe.

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Jan 28, 2026 12:48 PM in response to davidfromnorfolk

Prevent calls and texts on iPhone 14: […]is there a way I can set it up so that his calls and texts will not go through, thereby not inconveniencing or alienating longtime friends and associates?[…]

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For thought…

Blocking Out your Husband from THEIR End:

Have those folks block his number, if they have no reason to receive it. It would shown in their call history. They could block it out with a free third-party app called Bouncer. It blocks messages out by keywords and phrases. If you think about it, essentially, they would be playing their own role in looking out for your husband (and that is a good thing).

Get it Here: Bouncer: Text Messages Blocker 4+ - App Store

Jan 28, 2026 1:23 PM in response to davidfromnorfolk

Thanks so much for this idea. I’ll check out Bouncer.

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You are most welcome.


My Reputation with Bouncer on ASC:

I love it, and found out about it in these forums a year or so back. No clue of the date, nor participant, but the following Google search query shows where I’ve taken part in recommending it, in particular when it comes to scammers and others sending arrogant, inappropriate, and provocative messages of that nature.

"bouncer"+"thelittles" site:discussions.apple.com

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