Family Sharing problem - Child phone overrides Organizer

Family Share issue Organizer Phone is an iPhone 14 Pro iOS 26. Child's (boy - age 12) Phone is an iPhone 15 with iOS 26.2.

Problems:

  1. Even though he's set up as a 12 yo child, he has total control of his phone. The application allows him to override all settings. I've tried everything I can think of to fix this including erase all content and settings and after redoing it, he still has total control.
  2. I cannot set up the Age Range for Apps because I don't know the PIN and it's locked me down to one attempt every 60 minutes. How do I override the PIN?
  3. There is no option to set up for the Genius Bar to fix this problem...so can they even address this?

Thank you for your help.


iPhone 14 Pro, iOS 26

Posted on Feb 4, 2026 5:51 AM

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Posted on Feb 4, 2026 7:16 AM

Carada wrote:

1. Family Share issue Organizer Phone is an iPhone 14 Pro iOS 26. Child's (boy - age 12) Phone is an iPhone 15 with iOS 26.2.
Problems:
Even though he's set up as a 12 yo child, he has total control of his phone. The application allows him to override all settings.

What Application? To control the iPhone you need to setup Screen Time and set a passcode for Screen Time he does not know. If you don't know the current Screen time passcode, you'll need to reset the iPhone and not use a backup to restore it as the backup will restore the Screen Time passcode.

click here ➜ If you forgot your Screen Time passcode - Apple Support


I've tried everything I can think of to fix this including erase all content and settings and after redoing it, he still has total control.
2. I cannot set up the Age Range for Apps because I don't know the PIN and it's locked me down to one attempt every 60 minutes. How do I override the PIN?

The Age range for Apps is set in Screen Time settings. You need to sort that out before anything else.


3. There is no option to set up for the Genius Bar to fix this problem...so can they even address this?
Thank you for your help.

The Genius bar can help you restore the iPhone and correctly set up Screen Time yes.


For more details click here ➜ Use Screen Time to manage your child's iPhone or iPad - Apple Support



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Feb 4, 2026 7:16 AM in response to Carada

Carada wrote:

1. Family Share issue Organizer Phone is an iPhone 14 Pro iOS 26. Child's (boy - age 12) Phone is an iPhone 15 with iOS 26.2.
Problems:
Even though he's set up as a 12 yo child, he has total control of his phone. The application allows him to override all settings.

What Application? To control the iPhone you need to setup Screen Time and set a passcode for Screen Time he does not know. If you don't know the current Screen time passcode, you'll need to reset the iPhone and not use a backup to restore it as the backup will restore the Screen Time passcode.

click here ➜ If you forgot your Screen Time passcode - Apple Support


I've tried everything I can think of to fix this including erase all content and settings and after redoing it, he still has total control.
2. I cannot set up the Age Range for Apps because I don't know the PIN and it's locked me down to one attempt every 60 minutes. How do I override the PIN?

The Age range for Apps is set in Screen Time settings. You need to sort that out before anything else.


3. There is no option to set up for the Genius Bar to fix this problem...so can they even address this?
Thank you for your help.

The Genius bar can help you restore the iPhone and correctly set up Screen Time yes.


For more details click here ➜ Use Screen Time to manage your child's iPhone or iPad - Apple Support



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