Tap to pay changes card number, how do you find it?

Theres a lot of receipt tracking software that requires the use of the physical card number.... I.e Home Depot tracks in store receipts through the card number. Apple Pay though masks it and it took me forever to figure out how to make a return. Anyways I can't look up receipts through homedepot.com now because I do not have access to the mysterious token given to my credit card when using tap to pay. I'm going to be forced to go back to a physical card unless someone has a solution to such a simple problem.

What is my card number?

or better yet is there an alternative tap to pay program on iPhone or do I have to switch to android?

For reference I spent an hour talking to apple, an hour talking to homedopot on the phone then another hour in store. Everyone said tuff luck