You're in the wrong place if you are looking to communicate with Apple; this is exclusively a user forum. If you are looking to communicate a problem to Apple, you should use their feedback page:
http://www.apple.com/feedback/
If you want help with an Apple product, you should call their phone support or visit the genius bar.
As far as I know, none of the updates to date have been listed as solving pausing/buffering problems, although with any electronic product, the first step in addressing a problem is always to make sure that your firmware is updated to the latest version.
Although a forum like this tends to attract people who are having problems, the rapid sales of the AppleTV and its rapid growth as a Netflix client seems to indicate that such problems are uncommon (I've used mine a lot, and so far, I've not had it pause to re-buffer even once, which is more than I can say for my other Netflix clients). Some of the solutions to this kind of problem that have been reported by others are: 1) switching from wifi to wired connection, 2) replacing modem or router, 3) Changing firewall/security settings on modem or router, 4) upgrading to a faster class of internet service, 5) changing DNS address to the ISP's default address (as recommended by Apple:
http://support.apple.com/kb/TS3623), to Google DNS, or to Open DNS