This is about Calendar only...I still have problems with contact syncing, but solved my problem with calendar. Often it is a conflict over the default calendar being different on the PC and the iPhone4 I don't know about the other phones , it is probably the same since Apple continues to spit in Microsoft's face by spitting in ours!
When you open Calendar you will see how many Calendars the iPhone thinks you have in Outlook. It is on the top bar, right in the middle..."X Calendars". (1) Next, go to Settings >Calendars (last on the list) >Default Calendars. You will probably see different colored dots with the names of the various Calendars the iPhone recognizes from Outlook. There should be the same number as in "X" as mentioned above.
(2) Now go to your phone Calendar and select a date with no entries. (3) Hit the + sign (upper right) and enter any word you want in the "Title" line and hit "Done", also in upper right. (4)This takes you back to the "Add Event" page. (5) Now, the key thing to do is to look near the bottom of the page where it says "Calendar" and touch that. This takes you to the page with the different calendars and their pretty little dots. (6) Pick the first one. (7) REPEAT this process with another, but DIFFERENT date, and choose the next dot (calendar) down. Repeat this as often as the number of calendars shown.
(8) Sync with your computer. Only one of the "new dates" will appear and you now know to go back to Settings, etc. and pick that choice as the default calendar to sync. (9)Then make sure that next time you enter a new event you repeat steps 4 and 5 making certain the discovered syncing calendar is checked. This should become the default after repeating this a couple of times. You MUST make sure to use the same Outlook calendar when you enter new dates first on the PC and not the iPhone
It looks more daunting than it is. Three of my friends have used this and now everything seems OK after more than a year.
Please note that if you only have only 1 showing when you first open Calendars, then I don't know if this is applicable. If you use multiple Outlook Calendars it becomes much more complicated, So, I admit this is only partially useful. But if you're using multiple Outlook Calendars you're probably on a Blackberry. LOL
Finally, it would seem that if we knew: 1) Which Outlook line or field Apple uses to sync with it would at least allow us to get CONTACTS in the right alpha order; 2) if there is a limit to additional info, viz. notes, extra address entries, etc before causing trouble, that would be very helpful. I refuse to pay Apple just because they refuse to fix their continuing problem and my phone has gone past the free help date. The other pay "help sites" are useful about .01% of the time. Maybe a techie or geek (god bless them) knows???
Message was edited by: pbarlow00
Sorry, but the iTunes.>info>advanced>sync with computer this time only has failed me too many times to count.