My issue was not with a Thunderbolt mac. It was with an older Mac Pro 2x266 with a mini dvi display adapter. I used my Thunderbolt equipped Mac Book Pro to update the monitor, and am extremely happy to report that at least so far, no flickers on the monitor while connected to the Mac Pro. Thanks to everyone for sticking with this. It is now a pleasure to use my Mac again.
Thanks to Apple for sticking with it, but I wish you would have been a little more upfront with us. "We know there is a problem and it appears to be monitor firmware related. We don't have an answer right now, but will stick with it until we do and let you know. Have patience." would have been a perfectly acceptable answer.
Telling me to "revert the OS to 10.0 and apply one update at a time until it starts to flicker again, then let us know when it breaks down" is not acceptable. Telling me that "nobody else is having a problem, so therefore it must be my hardware" is also not acceptable.
Being honest with us goes a long way in keeping the faithful keeping the faith. Just sayin....
Like the others are saying, Thanks Again!
Bill