As an aside, my system information displays both DIMMs as 1067.
So, while it's possible, if not quite likely, that I'm just lucky, that does not invalidate my experience, nor does it mean that anyone else should be precluded from attempting a similar setup.
As to how I determined the solidity of my setup; why, the same way any amateur or professional scientist would: observation, measurement and logging. While I in no way claim to be a scientist, I gave been involved in the technical field and with technology for long enough to have enough of an understanding of the experimentation process...
In my experience and with my configuration on my system there has been no measurable difference between the stability of my System before and after the upgrade. There has, though, been a marked inprovement in my workflow, mostly due to my work-profile.
And there then is where the use of VMs become relevant. Since I use VMs extensively as development machines I tend to saturate my available RAM with a depressing regularity. Thus I quite frequently use all 8Gb of memory which, should the secondary DIMM have been more prone to failure, should have created more frequent failures, hangs or crashes. That has not been the case in my configuration.
Now while it's true that I have installed a decent brand of memory in my system, it would be what I would advocate to anyone else as a matter of course anyway: always install the best hardware you can get for a reasonable price. Both if those are, of course, subjective measurements and should be decided by whoever is contemplating the upgrade...