I think i fugured it out.
It seems to be some problem with the connectors or some excessive stuff in the card holder.
After fiddeling back and fourth with my 4 different cards, especially after trying out the steps in the you tube video. Suddenly all my cards started working, even if I push them alla the way in.
So start by putting the cards in and out, try doing like in the you tube video, finding the magic distance, even if it is not the same card you can see the distance, kind of.
And them maybe you will be as lucky as I and suddenly it will all start working.