I dont know whether this helps anyone - i am in spain with 3 ATV3s connected to a standalone Acer running Windows 7 64 bit and Itunes 11.0.2.26. All Itunes data is on a 4tb WDC drive and there are 24000 photos, 25000 tracks and 2900 films ranging from 1 minute to 4 hours (Dances with Wolves - yawn)
I have no landline in this flat (it's Spain!) so i use a very nice Huwaei E589 MIFI with the fastest sim chip provider in the country (Tuenti).
I recently changed the password on the mifi to stop guests logging on and preventing my totally 10 devices connecting (max allowed) The problems of dropping the connection to Itunes happened straight after that. Before that i never had them. Obviously one would think the changing of a password on a mifi has nothing to do with this. I diligently changed all the other devices passwords, ensured they all reconnected properly, turned EVERYTHING off and rebooted the whole lot.
Everything works - eprinter, 5 Laptops, 3 ATV3s and connects to the internet fine
But the ATV3s started to drop the connection and i got the usual bollux "Please turn on Home sharing etc" which always necessitated x-ing itunes and restarting.
Here is what i tried without going into deep tech as suggested on very many of these helpful posts (DHCP, , Static IPs, PRAM and all that stuff - not my bag and i have no time)
1) Itunes - turn home sharing off then on again and reboot the whole system to "refresh" everything
2) Edit Preferences Sharing - uncheck "share my library overy my local network"
3) Edit Preferences Store - uncheck "Sync playback information across devices"
4) Control Panel - WIndows Firewall - turn it OFF - to **** with the consequences (after 26 years of messing with PCs i have never had anything but problems with Firewalls and tbh i dont see the point. Oh and noone's hacked me either - 26 years.....
5) Mifi - turn the firewall off - dunno what this does - but "like for like" in my mind
6) Mifi - set channel to 1 NOT Auto.
7) ATV3 - set time to sleep to NEVER
8) ATV3 - dont send info to APPLE - why to bother if they do naff all with it?
That's it - the thing has been up and running for 3 days solid with 3 films all being played on repeat on 3 ATV3s in diff rooms - we shall see after a week and i will report back with pos or neg result.
Note - my other set up is in Switzerland and there i have NEVER had this problem with 3 ATV3s either. All the same kit and the same set up (WIN7, Acer, Itunes 11.0.2.26, 4TB drive with exact same media files) The modem there however is a Swisscom cable modem for TV, Phone and Internet (yes Switz does have telephone lines) and all i can suggest as to what went wrong is:-
1) Firmware updates - Apple did not heed those old adages "If it aint broken dont fix it", and "Bullet proof everything before you go live and take our 100 bucks" (i made that up)
2) Dodgy signals in wifi modems being interfered with by other kit close by... bit vague sorry but i could not be bothered to test the positioning of the Huwaei around the flat
3) Itunes updates - do we go back to 10 or stick with 11 and beyond? Who knows? certainly not apple
In truth i was ready to take 5 "paperweights" back without receipts or original boxes AND their relative HDMI cables for a 600 buck refund but i cant be bothered if it works on and off. When i grow up and have more money, i am going to go Roku - sod Apple
Thanks for listening.