Hi,
Actually, my iPhone 4 is pretty much filled with apps - mostly business, and productivity - Office Connect is one of the most used, along with email, which is all day, some texting, the camera, Facetime, and several others. I, too, practically live with my phone 24/7.
Upon reflection, I did have a problem with my iPhone where it became slow and unresponsive, and was caused by one of the social networking apps - I can't remember its name right now. It was easy to locate and after I removed it, all went back to normal.
I have to test all the blasted gadgets that come out, along these lines, and they can be a real pain. As I have mentioned many times, if your going to have a problem with your phone, it will likely be a misbehaving app, especially games, then social networking stuff. Very rarely will a production, or business app cause a problem.
I have only one game, a solitaire game, and that's used for periods of time waiting in doctors offices, etc. It's only been used a few times.
I don't know what to tell you, but if anything, battery run time went up a bit, but only slightly, if that. Our test iPhone 4, is used for testing anything that anyone wants to use at work, so we pretty much cull out apps that will be of concern. That phone has a dummy account on it, and it sits on my desk only for test purposes. The main problems are games, and social networking stuff, mainly, but there have been other categories, just not many. It's battery life is as always.
Maybe, if a bug does appear, it will be dealt with at some point, but there are only a relative few complaining about this. I can find no iOS bug, and I would, unless it was extremely subtle. I would look closer to home for a solution.
If you live in a low reception area, your phone will continually be trying to hit 3G, or WiFi to make a connection and then lose it, and try again - that will eat up your battery if it has to do that a lot. That I have seen, but not on my own phones. It was a client in the country where reception was minimal at best. Try playing around with your network settings, turning off/on 3G data, WiFi, etc.
I only brought up the "gun to the head" thing, because we get a lot of shills, and trollers here that just want to make trouble, and **** people off. I've tested all of the current Android phones, so I know how they are, they aren't bad in some ways, but terrible in others. The shills, and trollers are always pointing to the Android for a solution, which isn't a solution for the long run. There are dozens of models, all different as they put their own spin on the OS, making not all apps compatible, and they are badly fragmented - even Google is starting to put some restrictions on the problem. If Google takes it over, more like Apple, then there will be a better solution for the end users.
I'd start over with a fresh factory loading of the phone - your apps can all be reinstalled. Good Luck.
Cheers,
M.
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