It is correct that you cannot run the dual band AirPort Extreme in 2.4 GHz mode only. Right now, both the 2.4 GHz and 5 GHz bands are using the same wireless network name.
If you assign a different name to the 5 GHz band on the AirPort Extreme, then you can manually "point" your iPad at either the 2.4 GHz band or the 5 GHz band. As it stands now, the iPad is connecting to the 5 GHz band because it has looked at both the 2.4 GHz and 5 GHz bands and decided that the 5 GHz band offers the better quality connection.
So, it's fine if you want to experiment with connecting to 2.4 GHz with the iPad, but there's no assurance that 2.4 GHz willl produce a better connection. One of the reasons for this is that there is a much greater chance of picking up interference on the 2.4 GHz band.
To assign a separate name to the 5 GHz network on your AirPort Extreme:
Open Macintosh HD > Applications > Utilities > AirPort Utility
Click Manual Setup
Click on Wireless located just below the row of icons
Click Wireless Network Options
Enter a check mark next to 5 GHz name
This will automatically add "5 GHz" to the wireless network name that you are using now
Click Done
Click Update and the AirPort Extreme will restart in 25-30 seconds
To connect to the 2.4 GHz band, you really should have to do nothing on the iPad because it will "see" the same wireless network name as before...which is now the 2.4 GHz band. If you want to it to connect to the 5 GHz band, you will need to look for the name of your network with the "(5 GHz)" added to the wireless network name.