jrpeterson5 wrote:
It is a mistake to assume that some of us 'don't want to be helped'. Like you Augend, I am a doctor working 6 days per week. To 'resetup' all 15+ scenarios I discribed in my previous post to test a ping is simply NOT realistic right NOW....and CERTAINLY NOT realistic within a 24 hour period of your request. Those scenarios took the better part of an afternoon....wasted to answer previous questions. Have some sympathy and understanding. This thread, as others have stated, has become a waste because of the tone.
What is complicating things, is that people come here, and seem to expect that they will experience "tone" in the conversation. There are lots of cultures here (this is not just US citizens) and there are many who use English as a second language it seems. So, we are often fighting over things that are not meant to be fighting words, and then culture or past experiences are causing more replies to be heated, trying to defend what has been said.
I am trying to help. I am being demanding of peoples time and commitment because I know that is what it will take to solve the problem.
Like it or not, this is not a trivial problem to work though.
Like it or not, this forum is not where Apple does customer support. This is where customers help each other with common experiences, solutions etc. If all you want/need is Apple support, then you need to have an AppleCare agreement, or be willing to pay them for the service, AND you need to be on the phone with them, or at an Apple store, every day, until it is fixed.
If you don't have money and time like that, then you might be able to get a solution, for free, by taking the time to work through the issues here.
For some people, that might be too much time, and I'm sorry, but that means you'll just have to deal with the issue yourself, and be frustrated, mad (and hateful for some it seems). If that makes you feel better, go for it, but do it somewhere else. I find it completely childish and inappropriate for this forum.
People have to eat, work, sleep, bathe and do all kinds of things in their life, and they make time to do that. Sometimes it is convenient, sometimes its not.
But, you can't expect to get different results then you have gotten to date, by continuing to do the same thing. Do that is the defintiion of stupid.
I know this can sound harsh. I am a parent, and I have a parenting mentality. When I see conversations that involve poor choices, ignorance or stupidity, I'm going to try and give you information or impetus to do better so that you can get great results from your actions.
I'm sorry if that tone frustrates or bothers you. It's who I am and how I work at this kind of distance. If I could see you in person, experience your frustration, and see all of your circumstances, I might be able to know what you are capable of.
When people come here asking for help, I ask for those people to value the fact that I am spending time here trying to help.