Not sure if it's been mentioned, but here's a really simple fix that repaired the following problem on 13in. MBP Retina:
Wireless fine after restart, but after sleep it doesn't want to reconnect to preferred network; it can see it, but I have to click on it to connect. No dropping of connection, just this sleep problem.
Tried most of suggestions above, then as my mac is still under initial warranty, I called the Applecare team. Took a fair bit of troubleshooting, and they indicated it's to do with conflicts with bluetooth (as discussed above). The following seemed to clear it for good (fingers crossed):
Delete connection, turn wi-fi off. Go to: MacintoshHD/Library/Preferences/ and here find the file: com.apple.Bluetooth.plist
Copy it to desktop then delete it. Reboot. Find network and reconnect. Good luck!