My experience:
1) Installed 10.6.6 that came with a 2011 MBP 15" on the Mac Mini Server using it on target disk mode. I'm actually doing this on a RAID-0 array I've created on the Mini (which means I erased the factory Lion partition...)
2) Updated to 10.6.8 at first reboot, still on the MBP
3) Rebooted the Mini by itself. Graphic glitches, phantom display, mouse issues.
4) Fixed this using the kext files method discovered by newfoundglory (cheers dude!) and the files downloaded from megaupload
So far, no apparent issues. I have not, however, tested the thunderbolt port, graphics acceleration or resolutions above 1080p
From what I've read on this thread, I've noticed that I'm supposed to copy some .plist files to the Mini. I don't know exactly what these files will fix (CPU issues?). Although I have a Lion install disc, I can't find these files inside the mentioned kext. I'm guessing I'll have to actually install Lion on some other disk, because the kext on the install disc (ACPI_SMC_PlatformPlugin.kext) does not contain the plist files ≈
...or perhaps someone can share the plist files? 🙂
Anyway... conclusion: SUCCESS, apparently. Thanks a bunch to everyone involved in the process, and special greets to newfoundglory.