I have had the same problem. Disk utility is useless in burning. I don't know how the icon has appeared, then I have unlocked it and give permisions to everyone (I guess it hasn't had any effect, but anyway). And then with finder I have burnt it, and it works. With Disk utility it keeps saying "not mounter, read-only" and that the dvd is not compatible.
End of the history? No, after a while writing, this is the message:
"The disc can’t be burned because an unexpected error occurred (error code 0x8002006E)."
So great ...
EDIT: and now the disk is just automatically ejected, so I have only 4 left trying to burn my data. Could I ask Apple to refund my DVD??
EDIT2: and now the 2nd disk, "The disc can’t be burned, because the device failed to calibrate the laser power level for this media."
And of course, the disk is not recognised any more. 2 disks dead. Very bad apple, VERY BAD