Waking up an old thread.
I'm getting this problem intermittently with a mid-2011 mac mini server (fully upgraded to mountain lion non-server - certainly no pending firmware updates!) connected to a Dell U2711 via a mini-displayport to displayport cable.
The fault as I see it: The computer is set to sleep Never, but set to monitor-sleep in 15 mins. *Sometimes* when I come to use it, I tap a keyboard key as usual; but the monitor only wakes enough to show a graphic that it's connected by displayport (true), then goes back to sleep. Subsequent keypresses do nothing. That much activity at least tells me the keyboard is working! (It's an apple keyboard plugged into the computer itself, not the monitor's USB hub.) I can interact with the computer fine via screen sharing; but when this fault occurs, this doesn't wake the screen either, which it normally would.
The key word is "intermittently". It happens pretty rarely but it's amazingly annoying when it does. All this time so far I'd been assuming it was an intermittent fault in the *cable*, as sometimes (inconsistently) it would be resolved by unplugging and replugging that. But the cable itself had always seemed a bit flimsy to me, and when the fullsize displayport end came apart in my hand rather than be unplugged from the monitor a few days ago, i replaced it with a new one from a different manufacturer (and which "feels" better-built). And I'm still having the problem; it having happened again right after I first started using it, and again just now.
The only thing I've found that really seems to fix it, for the short term, is to reboot the computer; then it comes up fine, without me applying undue stress to the connectors. Of course this isn't Windows, so reboot-to-fix isn't to be considered an acceptable solution. :-)
It turns out a colleague with a macbook air and the same monitor, using the same kind of cable to connect, has been having the same problem; and now I find this thread here. So it seems to me more likely to be an ongoing thunderbolt firmware issue than hardware/cable issues.
There is no option to turn off auto-brightness, as this isn't an Apple display, and there's no such functionality to begin with.
Using HDMI is no solution because it wouldn't be able to drive this display's full resolution.