iPhone is syncing with my husband's iCloud info instead of mine!

If you go into settings -> store, it should probably say your husband's account. Try changing this and see what happens.

Interesting because it should give you the option of logging out. However, I just tried this on my own phone, and it didn't affect the iCloud account at all. I'm assuming you are using a 4S as well? When you set up the new phone, did you do it through iTunes? If so, did you go through the same iTunes your husband does? Specifically, was it in the same user account on the computer itself? Because there is a possibility that your husband's iCloud account could be tied to that iTunes account, but I'm not sure. Is your 3gs running an iteration of iOS 4, or did you update that to 5? You may want to use itunes on a seperate user account on the computer and set it up from there... Also, you could set up your new phone independantly of the computer assuming it is a 4S. You may not get your app data, but it would force it to use your own iCloud account.

So in summary, I would try it in this order:

1 Restore to factory settings, then when you set it up again, make sure you pay close attention as it goes through the set up of iCloud.

2 if that doesn't work, restore and set up as a new phone independant of the computer.

3 try using iTunes on a seperate user account on the computer.

I have the exact same scenario and am afraid to delete my iCloud sign in/account from daughter's iPod Touch 4, in fear it will entirely delete my iCloud account! Hoping for an answer . . .

Thanks . . . deleting worked fine in my same scenario! Just deleted daughter from backing up to my iCloud but did not affect me being able to back up to my iCloud. 🙂

I have the same problem.

The move from iPhone 3GS to 4S has been a monumental failure for me. The folks at the Apple store said I should create a new iTunes account on a DIFFERENT ACCOUNT on my wife's computer and then see how that works. I don't know if this would work or not, but it would likely irritate my wife to no end so as it stands now I need a better solution.

i have this same problem only my mums phone has all my contacts and none of her own the only diffrence betwwen mine and your problem is that we share the same icloud account we really need help with this problem