Same problem.
Lion and Mountain Lion are THE MOST buggy systems I've ever encountered, even worse than I remember Windows around 2000 (back when I had a PC). I'm with the other guy here who mentioned OSX is becoming Windows!!!
I've been working for TWO WEEKS to update my system from SL to ML, and because ML is bug ridden to downgrade to Lion, which is also really bad. I've read countless threads like this to find work arounds to the countless bugs. All include efforts to reinstall, trash preferences, and have to redo what I already did a million times, it's so frustrating.
I think we all knew this was going to happen when Jobs departed. I've mosted all my rabid mac friends are starting to say the same thing; we hate mac now. That's a big change in my attitude in only 1 year. Sigh.
Also their help desk is helpless.