I just wanted to say a big thanks to Király. I was suffereing the same problem, attempting to work on the same set of files from two different users on the same computer, and his solution worked perfectly.
I moded his text slightly as the user group I wanted is named something different. I found that one can copy and paste his text into textedit to make such a change, and then copy it from there. If you change the text below, substituting the word usergroupname with the name of your own, it should work fine.
sudo chmod -R +a "usergroupname allow delete,chown,list,search,add_file,add_subdirectory,delete_child,file_inherit,di rectory_inherit"
Also the order is:
Launch terminal
Paste modded text from above
Hit the space key once
Drag folder you want to change the permissions onto the terminal window
Hit return
When terminal asks for your admin password, enter it and hit return
That should do the trick, at least it did for me.