First off, yes, you can go to 16GB. Not from Apple, but third parties do provide 8GB DIMMs that can take your machine to 16GB.
I think the issue, though, is whether or not it's worth it, and that is something that only you can decide, which is why you haven't been given a clear answer.
Why is it only something you can decide? Well, for one we don't know what you intend to use this machine for. If you're using it to browse the web and check email then it's absolutely overkill. If you're a video pro and are planning on editing HD video on your machine then it's not since that kind of application thrives on (needs?) as much memory as it can get.
Then there's price. 8GB DIMMs are uncommon and (relatively) expensive - at least they're more than twice the price of 4GB DIMMs - so there's a price premium to pay. No one here is going to know whether that cost is trivial or a burden on your finances.
So, as you can see, there are many variables that we can't answer, so we can't tell you what to do.
If you want a personal opinion, unless you know you're using an app that wants more memory I'd buy the 8GB machine and run with that for now and see how it goes. It's no harder to upgrade to 16GB in 6 months time if you find you need it - plus, by then the price may have dropped and you same some $$s, too.