I applaud your generosity and willingness to give up $230.00 worth of iPad apps. Unfortunately, Apple allows no provisions for transferring apps from one account to another. This decision wasn't made by any user on this forum since we are all just other users trying to help other users with technical problems. I'm sure that most users would love to have this ability to transfer purchased content to another ID.
I know that Apple has some sort of iPad in Education progmam as well as the iPad in the Enterprise program. Those programs are designed for users like yourself and PWquick. They have provisions for setting up iTunes accounts to buy apps with multiple licenses and things like that so that these types of situations can be avoided.
Unfortunately, nobody takes the time to look into the programs, the excitement of getting the new iPads up and running takes over, or users simply aren't aware that the programs exist - more often than not that is probably the case.
Even though everything is spelled out in the Apple ID FAQ support site, not very many users are going to take the time to read the entire website and digest all of the information before they proceed to set up an account that is going to be used by other people. Frankly I wish that Apple would post in big giant letters when a new user applies for an Apple ID that purchases can never be transferred to another ID or given away, after they are purchased with that ID. When you sign up to use the iTunes store there is a 45 page document stating the terms and conditions. I would venture a guess that maybe one out of 20 users even reads the first two pages before they hit the - I Agree button - so that they can get started using their new iDevice and download content.
I don't think that there is anything you can do, but try contacting Apple and explain your situation. I'm not betting that they will let you give the apps over to another ID, but nothing ventured, nothing gained.