Bimmer, OG and stedman are speaking from a lot of experience other users have had on these discussions. Yes, faster ram MAY work in a machine as you have experienced. But, it may not, as you also experienced. During the past year or so, there have been a number of users on here complaining about this and that ram they bought, each module independently registered ok, but installed would not work. The ram was faster, so in theory better, than the Apple spec. So why didn't it work?
Other users, like your experience, came on and said they used faster ram than specified and it worked...but in some cases they added that at a later date they started having kernel panics indicative of faulty ram.
I am not discounting your experience, and approach to stick with quality ram, but just agreeing with OG and stedman that it is still sound advice to say stick to the Apple specs. And I would add the caveate, buy quality ram...Macs are notoreously sensitive to their ram.
I am sure we can discuss this topic all day...the subject keeps coming up every couple of months 🙂