Thanks Bob,
Mine looks a tick different:
OSXvnc-se 155 ganesh txt REG 14,2 532372 1233470 /Library/Application Support/VineServer/OSXvnc-server
OSXvnc-se 155 ganesh 8u IPv6 0x08415460 0t0 TCP *:5901 (LISTEN)
OSXvnc-se 155 ganesh 9u IPv4 0x08418f28 0t0 TCP *:5901 (LISTEN)
AppleVNCS 505 ganesh 8u IPv6 0x084151f0 0t0 TCP *:vnc-server (LISTEN)
AppleVNCS 505 ganesh 9u IPv6 0x08414830 0t0 TCP [::192.168.1.100]:vnc-server->[::192.168.1.20]:50100 (ESTABLISHED)
if I turn the VineServer on I get:
Finder 134 ganesh 13r REG 14,2 532372 1233470 /Library/Application Support/VineServer/OSXvnc-server
AppleVNCS 505 ganesh 8u IPv6 0x084151f0 0t0 TCP *:vnc-server (LISTEN)
AppleVNCS 505 ganesh 9u IPv6 0x08414830 0t0 TCP [::192.168.1.100]:vnc-server->[::192.168.1.20]:50100 (ESTABLISHED)
OSXvnc-se 579 ganesh txt REG 14,2 532372 1233470 /Library/Application Support/VineServer/OSXvnc-server
OSXvnc-se 579 ganesh 8u IPv6 0x08414350 0t0 TCP *:5901 (LISTEN)
OSXvnc-se 579 ganesh 9u IPv4 0x08416278 0t0 TCP *:5901 (LISTEN)
OSXvnc-se 633 ganesh txt REG 14,2 532372 1233470 /Library/Application Support/VineServer/OSXvnc-server
OSXvnc-se 633 ganesh 8u IPv4 0x08417ad8 0t0 TCP *:vnc-server (LISTEN)
OSXvnc-se 641 ganesh txt REG 14,2 532372 1233470 /Library/Application Support/VineServer/OSXvnc-server
OSXvnc-se 641 ganesh 7u IPv6 0x08414aa0 0t0 TCP *:5902 (LISTEN)
OSXvnc-se 641 ganesh 8u IPv4 0x12affb98 0t0 TCP *:5902 (LISTEN)
OSXvnc-se 676 ganesh txt REG 14,2 532372 551740 /Applications/Vine Server 3/Vine Server.app/Contents/Resources/OSXvnc-server
OSXvnc-se 676 ganesh 7u IPv6 0x084145c0 0t0 TCP localhost:5901 (LISTEN)
OSXvnc-se 676 ganesh 8u IPv4 0x08418f28 0t0 TCP localhost:5901 (LISTEN)
Seva-Server:~ ganesh$
Not sure if I see anything that could indicate the source of the problem. (but than I am not an expert).
Could the last line be the indication as to what is making the old password stick?
I do tend to not log in over the Chicken and VineServer, at home I use screen sharing etc. But, like you , when I am away, and have poor bandwidth I use chicken and VineServer. It is than that I use the VNC password.
However, what ever, I can at the moment not get rid or the existing VNC Password and like to.