Hello Lewaseven,
I'm sorry for your predicament and first-time experience with Apple products. I can only say this: in over 28 years of using Macs this is my first big "uh oh". Up until my last two purchases (my current 27" iMac and my current MacBook Pro 15") I have religiously purchased the AppleCare extended warranty.
Now to be honest, I have ended up using the Applecare on a majority of my purchases, but for what I considered the normal failures: Optical drives and hard drives. It seemed that close to the end of the third year I'd always have an optical drive go bad or more rarely, a hard drive quit on me. As I said, those are really common failures that any computer will experience. They are both mechanical devices subjected to a lot of wear and tear/usage and so I've not been "surprised" to see them go south. I worked at one time in a very LARGE corporate environment in their computer deployments and we constantly were replacing hard drives and other mechanical parts... on Dells and HPs. So, that I consider just part of owning the equipment.
But this video-goes-dark issue is a genuine exception for me. I blame myself for the predicament since I forgot to purchase my extended warranty. Now, I, like you, feel that since others (we don't know how many) are having this issue that it is more than a random part failure. It seems like an Engineering Issue to me.
I suspect the only way to get this KNOWN to Apple is to start rattling the cages at the Genius bars in the Apple Stores. Unfortunately I'm 100 miles from the nearest Apple Store and can't at this time afford to make the trip. I did call the Apple Store in Tulsa, OK (my closest) and the manager was not aware of this technical issue. I as not allowed to speak to a "Genius" or any repair personnel. I also called Apple's Applecare number, but since I have not purchased AppleCare I was deadended there as well. They could only recommend I take the machine to an Apple Store for diagnosis.
As for Apple services in the past, I've been more than pleased. If you are under warranty your issue gets resolved... period! And since I'm so far from an Apple Store, the AppleCare service actually sends a technician to my home/business!
So, the bottom line is that you and I are probably stuck with a design flaw that again probably won't get classifed as an Engineering issue.
All I can say is, "I will buy AppleCare from now on." It's good protection for gerneral very good devices and it gives you leverage with the Company when you do happen to get a lemon.
Best regards,
Mark
Ponca City, OK