Its clear that
1. This is a BIG issue with 10.7/ 10.8 and *probably* MBP 2011 13"....17"
2. Im pretty sure Cupertino are aware of this (its a long thread, Lion should be a priority etc) whether they're ever going to address/fix it is another matter
I'm having the same issue but I can find a way to reproduce this issue. (I have MBP 2011 17" Lion 10.7.4, 8gigs RAM yadda)
When the processor fan is blasting away merrily copying 40-60 gigs over firewire my speed drops to a crawl or worse. Safari, Firefox, Dropbox replication in the background, EVERYTHING is dead on the network.
When the copying comes to an end the processor chills out, and the connections (eg dropbox, firefox etc) all come back to life.
My guess? If there is a combined pathway for the NIC and the processor bus (or shared drivers or processes) Im guessing the bus/ traffic loading is causing either a IO controller or IO controller driver conflict or log-jam. Its too much a co-incidence that the internet traffic leaps when the firewire 800 stops. I can repeat the behaviour. Weird.
Anyone else explored this? Clearly for now we're on our own.