Following @smittyrocks lead I also sent a not to Tim Cook.
Guess what? I actually received a call from Apple today. I was surprised, and glad that they were showing some initiative on this.
I was put in touch with a Sr. Engineer and we were on the phone for about an hour and a half. He mirrored my computer and we replicated the problem. I gave him the URL to this thread (say hi) and we did a scan of my system. We opened up my Microsoft Outlook and reviewed all the settings. He was noticiably surprised at the depth and lenght of this thread - so I can veify that this particular threa has indeed been seen by someone at Apple.
He noticed some issues with the autopoplation and server names within mac mail. He asked me to contact my Exchange host and get some information to send over to him, which I did.
He stated that we would be back in touch on Monday after the team had a chance to review all of the data they pulled off of my computer.
For what it's worth (not a ton with we are all experiencing business downtime) they were very sympathetic, knowlegeable, and patient with me. The tech was exploring a lot of different options to see how and why this problem was occuring in real time.
The answer may not come out tomorrow, but I at least know without a shadow of a doubt that they are aware of the issue and are taking it seriously.
Hope that takes the edge of for some of you.
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