After months and months of waiting for Apple to fix their mistake, I've given up. I have resisted looking elsewhere for a solution for two reasons: I don't want to have to retype all of my calendar events into another application, and I liked the idea of keeping with the "Mac Experience". I've been a PC user since 1993 and the MacBook Pro I purchased in June 2011 was a big step for me, both cost and comfort wise. Nevertheless, I have enjoyed my Mac and over the last 15 months it has won me over. This reminder thing, however, has thrown me for a loop. Frankly, I do not understand Apple's position on this since, to me, one of their BIG selling points is ease-of-use and "user experience". Anyway, I think I found something that works well for me, although it will require inputting my calendar again. It is an add-on for Thunderbird called Lightning and it is similar to Outlook. Thunderbird, as you know, is an open source email client. I had to switch to it after my Mac Mail started giving me login failures with my AT&T/Yahoo account (this is another long, sad, unresolved tale). Since I'm using Thunderbird anyway, I thought I would try Lightning and so far it works well. The snooze feature allows me to select preset times or I can choose a custom snooze time. I'm keeping my iCal up to date (for now at least) just in case Apple bows to the pressure and reinstates selectable snooze times. I do not know how lightning will interact with other Apple devices, such as iPads and iPhones; I only have the one MacBook Pro at the moment so that doesn't affect me. Anyway, Lightning is FREE, which is always a plus, and it seems to do what I require. I hope this helps others out there with the same frustrations with Reminder.