SO, clearly for me the second hard drive which was storing my entire itunes library in the mini was disconnecting for no reason.
I have removed the hard drive from the mini and I am coping the 305 gigs of media from the drive to my external FireWire drive with the Mac mini Via a USB to sata cable.Removing the drive has caused the mini's cooling fan to run at top speed because the thermocouples from the drive are disconnected.This test will tell me if the drive is failing or not because if the mini will copy the entire library without failing, it's pretty good chance the hard drive is fine.
The next test will be to allow the hard drive to live outside the mini enclosure and continue to be the iTunes storage drive.I will have to remove the thermocouples and connect them to the logic board which will allow the cooling fan to operate correctly instead of being at full speed all the time.
If the Mini becomes unresponsive then I will disconnect the thermocouples and let the fan run full speed and run the test again.
My suspicion is the Mac Mini cannot be used as a media server if it is equipped with two internal hard drives using 1 as the media storage drive, I believe we have a thermo issue causing speratic behavior which includes rebooting, access to service denials,going into deep sleeps being unresponsive to wake on LAN, and a few others which I'm sure are heat related conditions causing RAM to fail!
Dear Apple Corporation, please forward purchase order number to me for my many hours of troubleshooting and service bench disassemble reassemble fees.
thanks......LOL I won't hold my breath !