Hi,
Is the watching of a Movie related to the use of Messages ?
iChat certainly had iChat Theatre that allowed you to "Share" by showing movies (or any file actually) this way.
I know it is no longer in Mavericks and Yosemite (you can share from a Video Chat but this Sends the File and no longer displays it).
I can't remember if Mountain Lion and Messages 7.x.x still has this feature.
In Messages you can only sync iMessages on an iPhone and Mac (iChat is the preceding App that could only use AIM, Jabber or Yahoo at iChat 6)
Having an AIM app on an iPhone and Messages on a Mac with an AIM Login open at the same time may display the same AIM chat (you have to allow multiple Logins).
I am not sure why this app is holding on to the Memory after a restart unless it was involved in showing the movie in the first place.
Then it is possible it thinks the task is incomplete and is "stuck" in that sense waiting for it to be re-connected.
This tread was last added to in August 2013 (I just happen to be still (somehow) Subscribed to it and had an email about a new post)
I am not aware that the issue was ever solved in Mountain Lion.
Mavericks was released not long afterwards on the 22nd Oct
Syncing iMessages
Enable the Messages app on the iPhone and wait for it to Verify the iPhone Number
Enable the Mac version by Adding an Apple ID to Messages in/for the iMessages account and wait for that to verify.
then Send from the iPhone Number (it will only display the one choice in Send and Receive) to the Apple ID (Mac)
Return from the Apple ID (the Mac will not display options at this point).
Now add the Apple ID to the iPhone Settings.
It will add the Apple ID to the Send and Receive options.
It will cause a pop up on the Mac saying what the iPhone is not using.
Accepting the pop up adds the iPhone Number to the Mac and reveals the Start Conversation From drop down.
iMessages sent to the iPhone number will now appear on the Mac as well.
iMessages sent to the Apple ID will also appear on both devices.
Adding the Apple ID to other iOS devices will pick up on the two way link and accepting the pop up there will add the iPhone Number as well.
10:17 pm Friday; February 27, 2015
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