You're not imagining it. I just spent an hour typing up some important text messages I need to shove off by tonight in Notes on my Mac. I figure, I can type them here on a full keyboard, they'll sync to my iPhone, then I just cut and paste them into text messages.
I get done, and open my iPhone. Initially the note isn't there. Then I get the first two words. I make another note called Sync! on the Mac to test the syncing or try to nudge it. Then my long note disappears, irrecoverably, and I have a note that says Sync! on both my Mac and iPhone, which is just...painfully ironic.
Same thing happened last week. So you know, fool me once, fool me twice... I should have learned by now not to trust this.
So for one, it would be super if they could resolve the sync issues. If nothing else, make it sync correct with an err to the side of caution. I'd rather see a dupe than a delete. And for two, where is the function to force a sync manually?
Apple design is better than this...