Wow! I can't believe we're having this conversation in 2014!
I am a Windows user who's just got his first Macbook Pro. And all I can say is I'm so utterly terribly disappointed at how primitive this Mac OS X operating system is.
I am a proud owner of an iPhone 5 and an iPad 3, and I have no hesitation in saying they are better than their Android competitors in both quality and ease of use. With the same expectations, I switched to a Macbook Pro this year. And what a disappointment it's been. I would happily return it if they would refund my money.
The "Don't sleep when lid is closed" option has been in Windows for ages. It is as basic a feature as "cut, copy and paste". People have been using Windows laptops with this setting turned on for ages. It's a MUST for a corporate user who has to frequently move around from his cube to others' cubes or conference rooms for meetings, because they have several applications running that require always-on connectivity, so the "save your work before you move" philosophy doesn't work here.
I'm a software engineer who has worked in large corporations like Cisco and Juniper Networks where thousands of people use Windows laptops with this setting on. In all these years, not once have I (or anyone I know) faced any problems like overheating or disks going bad that could be attributed to this setting.
This "Apple knows what's best for us" philosophy of fanboys harms Apple more than anyone else. It prevents them from firming up their deficiencies. OS X Mavericks is so far behind Windows 7 that you just can't imagine.
It is not a question of "use another OS if you don't like OS X". The point is - when you buy a laptop that costs 2-5 times of what its competitors charge, you expect everything that's standard on other laptops PLUS a little bit extra. Imagine, if you decide to go to a fancy expensive restaurant instead of a regular one, and what you get instead of better quality and more variety is a restrictive menu not having your favorite dishes on the grounds that "in our opinion, they are not good for your health."
As for me, I'm currently making do with the NoSleep extension which makes my Mac do what I want it to. Read my blog post for some of the other such shortcomings in OS X: http://www.vijaypadiyar.in/blog/2014/08/make-mac-osx-more-like-windows