There is very little poor-quality, failure-prone RAM on the market today. Reports of folks getting RAM that will not work in their Mac are almost exclusively due to getting the wrong parts for their Mac from a Vendor who is clueless about requirements for Macs. The issue is not "best quality" but rather "correct modules to work in your specific model".
Despite arguments to the contrary, the airflow in a Mac Pro is not the same as that in most PCs (it is lower), so Apple-rated heat spreaders are required for that Application. In addition, Apple-qualified temperature sensors are required for use in all Macs, to ensure proper fan control. Modules with the wrong heat sensors or no heat sensors may get too hot (leading to premature failure) or may run the fans at top speed all the time.
I stand by my statements above:
• Buy from Vendors with specific Mac expertise. This includes OWC, Crucial, Kingston, and Data Memory Systems, among others. In my opinion it does not include direct purchase from Memory-makers such as Hynix, unless they offer "Guaranteed or your money back" warranty. (They get it right because It costs them money to get it wrong.)
• Vendors should offer a Lifetime warranty. (This ensures they never sell junk memory, because it costs them money to replace it if it fails before your computer is obsolete.)
If I have these guarantees from the vendor, I can buy memory from any reputable Vendor, anywhere these terms are met.