So just a little update on my order... So for several days my order online continued to say ships in 2 weeks October 5th, still no luck with apple support on the phones despite two attempts. So I just resigned to fact that I'd just have to wait and help my mom set up her phone when it arrives 9/21. Well guess what?! I checked my order online Monday evening and it said delivers 9/21!!! Woohoo they upped my delivery date!
Meantime my moms being shipped and is currently flying from anchorage according to UPS even though her account online still states preparing for shipment. My order also still says preparing for shipment although I checked UPS (via their website using "track by reference "using my phone number that I used in the ordering process) and it is sitting in Nashville about ready to ship out.
This is the best way to get tracking info if you haven't gotten the email from Apple with that info, that is assuming your iPhone is coming through UPS and not FedEx. But unfortunately until apple updates their database that reflects in my order online that it's been shipped, I will not be able to presign for delivery... But im not stressed out anymore :)